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Generation to Generation

Generation to Generation

It’s Complicated: Family as a Means of Grace - Part 5
June 1, 2025
Deuteronomy 6:1-9

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your being, and all your strength. These words that I am commanding you today must always be on your minds. Recite them to your children. Talk about them when you are sitting around your house and when you are out and about, when you are lying down and when you are getting up.

Deuteronomy 6:5-7

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At first glance, I’d say I didn’t inherit much from my family when it comes to faith.  We went to church, but never talked about it at home.  Yet, looking back, I realize that without my grandmother’s quiet and steady faith, I probably would not be a Christian at all. 

Like my parents, she rarely spoke about faith out loud.  But she was a devout Catholic, raising five children in the church even though her husband never attended.  She prayed faithfully every day — perhaps more than anyone I’ve ever known.  I didn’t learn about her prayer corner until after our daughter was born.  She sat there daily, praying for every member of her family by name, all the way down to the great grandchildren whose names I don’t even know. 

I’m sad to admit that early in my overzealous Baptist years, I was convinced by the church that Catholics couldn’t be “saved,” and I worried about Gram’s salvation.  She always dreamed of one of her grandsons becoming a priest, and I was her last hope.  I shattered that when, in 6th grade, I convinced my parents to join the Baptist church.

Years later, after I became a pastor and she met my wife, she was deeply grateful.  Not only was her lifelong prayer answered by having a minister in the family, but she also cherished gaining a new granddaughter-in-law and great-granddaughter.  She saw God’s faithfulness in my life even if it didn’t look the way she expected.

Faith doesn’t always get passed down through perfect teaching or clear conversations. Sometimes it comes through presence — through someone showing up, holding space, or quietly living a life centered on God. That kind of faith may not look impressive, but it plants deep roots.

As Moses shaped a new people out of those freed from Egypt, God gave them a commandment that Jeus would later call the greatest: to love the Lord with all your heart, mind, soul and strength.  He said, “Talk about these things when you are sitting around your house and when you are out and about, when you are lying down and when you are getting up.”

My family didn’t exactly do that, at least not out loud.  But in her own way, my grandmother did.  She spoke about it through her prayers, long before I even understood or appreciated what she was doing.  She modeled it every time she took me to the church to light a candle for someone who was sick and every time she went to the nursing home to take communion to someone. 

And most of all, she spoke about it through her unconditional love.  She was deeply hurt when I left the Catholic church.  Yet even when I foolishly tried to convert her to a faith she already understood more deeply than I did, she never stopped loving me.

It’s not always obvious, but God’s love does reach down to us from generation to generation. 

Where can you see it in your family line?

 

God of the Generations

God of The Generations

The God of Abraham - Part 7

Sunday, October 15, 2023
Genesis 24:34-67

[Her family] called Rebekah and said to her, “Will you go with this man?”  She said, “I will go.” So they sent off their sister Rebekah, her nurse, Abraham’s servant, and his men. And they blessed Rebekah, saying to her, “May you, our sister, become thousands of ten thousand; may your children possess their enemies’ cities.” Rebekah and her young women got up, mounted the camels, and followed the man. So the servant took Rebekah and left.

 The servant told Isaac everything that had happened. Isaac brought Rebekah into his mother Sarah’s tent. He received Rebekah as his wife and loved her. So Isaac found comfort after his mother’s death.

Genesis 24:58-61, 66-67

Listen to this Week’s Sermon here:

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Most of us are uncomfortable with our own mortality.  As one doctor said to a newly diagnosed cancer patient, “We all have a terminal illness.  It’s called life.” 

While I don’t know that I would call life an “illness”, there is definitely truth to the fact that it is a terminal condition.  One of the worst parts of that truth is that no matter how long we live, we will always leave something seemingly unfinished.  We long to know what will happen beyond us.  We want to leave a lasting legacy. 

The good news is that God is a God of the generations. 

Abraham barely saw a glimpse of God’s promise.  He never even lived to see his grandchildren, yet God remained faithful to Isaac, Jacob & all the rest. 

Let us live with this eternal perspective, in faith and hope because God is faithful in every generation. 

Amen.

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 Hymn: God, We Spend a Lifetime Growing

Tune: 8787D, ODE TO JOY, BABILONE (Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee)

 

God, we spend a lifetime growing,
learning of your love and care,
planting seeds you give for sowing,
working for the fruit they’ll bear.
Now we honor faithful servants
who, with joy, look back and see
years of growing in your presence,
lives of fruitful ministry.

 Thank you, Lord, for ones who teach us
what has brought them to this place!
May their faith-filled witness reach us;
may we glimpse in them your grace.
Strong in you, their strength uplifts us
from our birth until life’s end;
Spirit-filled, they give us gifts, as
prophet, mentor, guide, and friend.

 Christ our Lord, you walk beside us,
giving daily work to do;
years go by and still you guide us
as we seek to follow you.
If our sight fails, weak hands tremble,
minds forget the things we’ve known,
Lord, we trust that you remember,
hold us close, and see us home.

 

— by Carolyn Winfrey GilletteText: Copyright © 2001.

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